Hello All!
Malu and
I are doing well. We’re having a great time with the people here, getting to
know them and helping out the pastors here as best we can. In our time we’ve
come to know a great couple that own a small business in town. They are both
recent believers in Jesus and it’s awesome to see the passion that they carry
to know more about Christ, God and the faith. I know that as Christians we
sometimes get stuck and struggle with purpose, but for me when we get back to
these grass-root commands of God, “...go and make disciples.” Life seems to
take on a whole new outlook.
Over quit
a few encounters the husband and I have been having discussions about how we
communicate with other Christians; more to the point if we see our brother or
sister in Christ sinning, how should we approach it? (Let’s call the husband
Al) Al’s point is that as Christians, by the revelation of the Holy Spirit we
should know what is right or wrong and therefore as brothers and sisters in the
Lord we should be able to confront one another on issues. And he’s been a
little surprised at the backlash he’s getting from his fellow believers because
of this...now let me explain a little. Part of this is cultural and I here all
you Canadians saying”Cultural?...they’re all in Mexico, right?”... true, but
there is a dramatic cultural shift between the North and the South of Mexico,
even from the middle, where we are now, to the North. In the North people are
more direct, they don’t use the diminutive form as much and they aren’t
“offended” as easily. In the south people have a much softer way of talking in
terms of inflection and the conjugations they use are much softer as well,
remember that Spanish has some 14 verb forms. SO, as you can guess, Al is from
the north and he doesn’t understand why people are so sensitive ... he’s also a
man! As we’ve been talking through this I’ve alluded to the fact that he might
look at who he’s talking to you. Although his intentions are good and he wants
to see his brothers and sisters in Christ grow and be good witnesses of Jesus’
love, his method is causing friction. We talked about the bible and how it asks
us to confront one another in the Lord with love. We chatted about how we can’t
just sit back and judge one another and not help our brothers and sisters walk
through their lives and deal with issues.
There
are things that we all know are blatant sins like murder, theft, adultery, etc.
and these are issues in Christian’s lives that need to be dealt immediately,
but there are other things as well. The way we talk about people or to people;
our attitudes; things we don’t do and should; the more subtle struggles that we
all have in one more or more areas of our lives. We all can look into the
mirror and see things that need to change; we sometimes are our own best critics.
And there is a way to help one another with these issues as well. Part of it is
to realize that we ourselves are not perfect and that we are all under grace.
Knowing that God is working in our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ as He
is working in us, “perfecting us until the day of salvation”, says the bible. Giving
timely advice, being ready to listen and available to lend a hand. If we’re
going to call out sin in others lives then we need to have the position to do
it and the willingness to help with the mess. Jesus reprimanded the Pharisees
for being over occupied with the small stuff (Matt 23:24) . . . not that we’re
not to look at it but we need to remember what Jesus calls the weightier
matters. Paul says “Rom 14:13 Let us not
therefore judge one another any more: but judge ye this rather, that no man put
a stumblingblock in his brother's way, or an occasion of falling.” And one final comment...just remember that
we’re all under grace and that the Word says we will be judged by the same
manner that you judge others (Luke 6:37) and we should have mercy.
(I do have more to write, but I think this is good for now!!)
What
started as a small discussion with Al about an issue he was struggling with,
ballooned into a central tenant of how I belief, how do I rationalize my own
actions? Do I judge myself against the inherent Word? Am I fully surrendered?
Pro
21:2
Every way of a man is right in
his own eyes, but Jehovah ponders the hearts.
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